Kim, Dawn and Mason

A place for me to share the next phase of our lives; being mommies to Mason!

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Weekend Field Trip - Museum of Life and Science

We have been keeping really busy on the weekends. Last weekend, we took Mason to the Museum of Life and Science. It was the first time we had gone together as a family.  I have been several times with children from the Y but this time I was entertaining my own child. It was very different than I remembered. Maybe that was because I was actually able to enjoy the museum this time. Mason was excited about all of the cool exhibits inside.  He was most fascinated with the "cloud" making machine.

After spending awhile inside, we ventured outside to see what was going on. Mason was quickly drawn to the huge musical instrument area so we spent a little time enjoying the "music" he and the other little ones were creating.


After enjoying some fabulous "music" we moved on to the butterfly exhibit. There were tons of beautiful butterflies in there. It was great watching Mason hold out his hand in hopes of the perfect butterfly landing on it. We were not fortunate enough to have them land on his hand but I am certain the butterfly was fortunate that it didn't.  Below is a picture of him trying so hard to get one to land on his little hand.


Then we were off to the dinosaur trail. It was a really cool trail with lots of huge dinosaurs. There was even a section where the you could dig for fossils and dinosaur bones. Mason really liked this area. Below are a few pictures that should tell the story of our time on this trail.




We enjoyed looking at all of the animals and riding on the train but unfortunately, we did not get many pictures of either of those things. We didn't get to finish going through the museum. Mason was getting sleepy and cranky so we called it a day and headed home. But before we left, we decided to purchase a family membership so we can enjoy the museum more often over the next year. Going just 2 more times will make the membership pay for itself so we thought it was a great idea. We are already planning another trip in the next couple of weeks and are planning to take the Santa train in December.

I abslolutely love spending time together as a family. It is awesome watching Mason as he is exploring new things. His mind is always working and he is such a little sponge.  I love him more than anything in the world and am looking forward to our next field trip!

Until next time......

Thursday, August 25, 2011

Change Stinks

Now that Mason is two years old, he is old enough to attend preschool at our YMCA Children's Center. This is something I have been looking forward to for a long time. My child gets to finally start participating in YMCA activities. This is exciting on many levels. One is that I have a child that can grow up in the Y and enjoy all of the great programs that we offer. Another is, he will be attending a school that is only a few miles from where my office is located which is convenient if I needed to get to him quickly one day! And another is...that he can attend our program for FREE!! Yep, that's right FREE. As of now, I no longer have a monthly preschool payment to pay. One of our employee benefits is our children are allowed to participate in our programs for at no charge to the employee. Huge benefit that I am extremely thankful for! While all of these reasons are great and I have been looking forward to all of them, a few weeks ago I found myself getting really worked up about him have to move to a new place. I had so many thoughts running through my head. Things like, how am I going to do drop off and pick up everyday? What will I do with him on teacher workdays? How will my staff feel about him being there? How will he adjust? Will he like it? Will he cry and be sad? On and on and on. Everyone kept telling me things would work out and that I was stressing over it too much. For those that know me well, know this is how I am. I have a tendancy to over analyze everything. Let me fill you in on how the past two weeks have been for us.

Well, the first two days were transition visits so he could only be there a couple of hours. Those two days were a breeze. He went right in and joined the class like he had been there before. I was excited that this change might now be a big deal at all. His teachers were impressed with him and said he is going to do just fine. Our first full day was on a Monday. He had a doctor's appointment that morning so we didn't get there until 11:00am. We walked in and he immediately asked to be held. I picked him up and told him it was going to be alright. He held on tight while I talked to his new teacher, Mr. Greg, for a few minutes. When it was time to go, I handed him to Mr. Greg and the screaming and tears instantly started. I continued to walk out of the classroom and could hear him all the way down the hallway. I waited a few minutes to see if he would calm down and he did not so I waited a little longer and he started to settle. I proceeded to leave the building when I heard screaming again and this time it was, mommy come back! Mommmmmyyyyyyy! I kept walking and could hear him outside and it BROKE my heart. I left in tears and continued on to work. About 10 minutes after I left, I got a text message from Mr. Greg telling me Mason had calmed down and was OK. I was ok by this time too so we were all good. Day 2 went about like day 1 so needless to say all my fears seemed to be coming true about this whole change!

Day 3 and 4 progressively got worse. Day 3 he started crying as soon as well pulled into the center parking lot. Day 4, he started crying as soon as I put him in his car seat to leave the house. He seemed to be really sad and very clingy and at night started to wake up during the night and very early in the morning screaming, "mommy come back!" It was breaking my heart and I felt so guilty for putting him through all of this. Day 5 was very similar to the others but now we had the weekend to spend some extra time together. Great you say. It was great but he started to TEST every thing possible and was being a little turkey! We use re-direction as much as possible with him but after so many times and that not working, I had to move to time outs. I even had to "pop" him on his bottom (well, diaper) a couple of times throughout the weekend to get him to listen. It was a complete 360 for him. I feared the terrible two's were in full force now.

We made it through the weekend which was exhausting because he was in to everything and woke up before 6:00am both days. Now it is on to week two of a new preschool. The crying and screaming continued during drop off but when I picked him in the afternoons he was playing and didn't immediately run to me. Mr. Greg continued to text me to reassure me he was calming down quickly and was ok. He also sent me a picture showing me he was starting to play with the other children.


Fast forward to day 3 of the second week and he walked right in his classroom and started playing in the sensory table which was full of dried oats and farm animals. I was a bit surprised but went with the flow and tried to leave in a hurry. Mr. Greg called me back for a second and Mason turned around and ran to me and started crying. I told him it would be alright and put him down and left. He screamed for a few minutes and that was it. I saw a few of the other teachers as I was leaving and they all told me he was doing great. I told them that I knew he was but it was still hard leaving him like that. I know it gets better and this is all normal but it has been emotionally draining having to have him crying and screaming when I leave. Below are a few more pictures showing that he does fine after I leave.





Today is Friday and there was a teacher workday today so no school for Mason which meant no work for mommy so we are spending the day together and will hopefully have a great weekend.

After two weeks at his new school, we have noticed that he has been singing new songs in the evenings when he would be playing. He even started saying his ABC's and counting to 10!! He must be getting something out of his day even if he does appear miserable and sad in the mornings. I know he was ready for more structure and being around children that are his age or older. I hope the crying stops and he gets back to his happy, go lucky self when I drop him off in the mornings. I miss my happy little boy and I am not ready for the terrible two's! Here's hoping week three continues to get better.

Until next time......

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Wordless Wednesday





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Earthquake, Really?

We had an earthquake here yesterday. Yes you read that right. We experienced the tremors from an earthquake that hit Richmond, Virginia. It rated 5.8 on the richter scale. I was sitting at my desk, talking on the phone with a co-worker when all of a sudden my chair started vibrating and the pencil holder on my desk started shaking. I said I think we are having an earthquake. My co-worker laughed and we went on with our conversation. Soon after I got off the phone, another one of my co-workers came in and said his wife called and she said their entire how shook and things fell off of some shelves. I said see I am not crazy. Of course soon after that it was everywhere on the internet and people were commenting about it on Facebook. Crazy, huh. Earthquakes in NC. Who'd a thunk it?

Until next time......

Kim


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Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Pool Fun













Until next time......

Kim

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